Personalized Couples Coaching
This is the Rolls Royce of the Tao of Deep Intimacy: for couples who are deeply dedicated to shifting relational habits inherited from previous generations, as well as mastering the basic Taoist practices, including sexual practices.
Work with Arjuna Ardagh on an individualized basis to address all of the areas where you feel you could use support: emotionally, relationally, energetically and sexually.
Format
We meet together each week for 90 minutes, the three of us, on the same day and time each week. We will explore the areas where you most need support.
Here’s how it usually goes for most couples.
We generally start with more relational practices, by dissipating habits of:
- withholding
- blame
- criticism
- defensiveness
- shutdown
We learn to replace these old habitual responses with habits of:
- tenderness (slow start up)
- vulnerability
- authenticity
- responsibility
- appreciation
- commitment
- making powerful bids for what you want to create
We learn how to change these habits not only through speech and behavior, but also by laying down new pathways in the nervous system. Taoist practices help regulate and co-regulate your nervous systems, minimize conflict, increase energy, improve flexibility, and balance the body’s systems.
You will learn practices to build life force energy (chi), restore libido, and work with sexual energy in a more conscious and connected way.
Over time, we shift into practices for the dual cultivation of sexual energy, allowing access to deeper states of connection, devotion, and full-body awareness.
Our shared intention is to move from:
Whatever’s going on now → Good → Great → Off the charts
In addition to weekly sessions together, each of you will also have one-on-one coaching sessions to support daily practice and break inherited patterns that block love.
Over time, this includes solo practices to prepare for deeper energetic work.
Vision of our Commitment
We set the intention to work together for at least a year, as it takes time to stabilize these practices. This is not a binding contract—you may cancel with 30 days’ notice.
Daily Reporting
You can send a short daily audio report via WhatsApp (Monday to Friday). All messages are reviewed and responded to within 24 hours.
Intensive Retreat
Within the first three months, we schedule a two-day intensive retreat. This can take place in Nevada City, your location, or a mutually agreed place. Some couples also invite additional support during this retreat.
Next Steps
Each package is customized to your needs. Start with a free 20–30 minute conversation. If it’s a good fit, we proceed with the next steps including scheduling and planning.
Please fill out the application for the first interview or book a session directly if you need immediate support.
